Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Will I Ever Get out of the Hospital?

 Jason Wightman brought over a very delicious casserole his wife, Becki had made for us.  thanks Jason & Becki... it helped that we didn't have to cook for several meals when I got home. This actually happened on Tuesday, Feb 3rd.. if you read my blog that day, we had an ADD moment where we got locked out of the house. All worked out in the end. Thank you Wightmans... you're great neighbors 

Getting wheeled out to the front lobby. My last 10 hours at the hospital, I was transfered from the SICU to Tower 4, a newly built section of the hospital. The floor I was in is the last step before discharge... really lots of independence and big rooms... enough to walk around in, sit up, watch TV, etc. etc... it's almost like a hotel room, except you're hooked up to things on the wall :-)

Home from Hosp Pictures 2

  The pictures are publishing in the reverse order.. sorry.  Ats got bored waiting for the transporter to come and pick me up in the wheelchair, so she was amusing herself with the things on my bedside table.

Ats with Ra and Sean... Black was the color of the evening.. except from my lovely gown, of course. It was great to see these newly weds :-)  still beaming and radiant... :-)

Home from Hospital Pictures

Ra and Sean came to visit Saturday night, Jan 31st.

 And of course, my very own personal nurse, Ate Grace :-)  See how I smiled when she came in my room that Saturday morning? I was ready to go home.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

sleep

I'm trying to see if the pattern could be broken. I take pain meds around 9 or 10 so I could go to sleep. And I do for about 3 - 4 hours... then I'm usually up at around 1 or 2 or 3... I take some extra strength Tylenol to take the edge off and sometimes doze of and on for another couple of hours. Then i'm awake for the rest of the night. Sometimes I pray, for it is quiet and peaceful.. many times, I'm in too much pain to want to do anything and I wish I could get some reprieve even for just a bit.  Then I realize that God has provided some relief... I am able to sleep some with the pain meds.... it's when I get tired of a position and I have to move that I get in trouble.  I felt so bad for Mahal last night.. I am afraid I was a bit cranky and whiny and he tried to re-arrange the pillows so many different ways and I could not for the life of me find a comfortable spot at all. He has been so patient and did complain or get annoyed at me at all. He said he just wished I could find a comfortable position. He said he had expected that it would take a long time for the healing process so he expects me to be in pain for bit. How grateful I am that he understands and even anticipates what I need. I just wish we could both get a full night's sleep for once. But, I know God sees me wiggling about.. and He is listening when I whisper to Him at night.  I hope you all got a good night's sleep tonight.... sweet dreams...

Monday, February 9, 2009

Target

I didn't think it would get to the point that my blogs will be marked by the outings we took on that day :-)  today was a great day. After our production with the shower, which, according to Ats (when she was asked by Carol today) seems to be getting easier with time... we finally got ourselves ready to go to Target.

I didn't anticipate that I would get so tired, so easily. I used a cart for some support, but when Frendell told me he'd push it, I didn't resist either. It's difficult to walk around, as I cannot really stand up fully upright (since the incisions are all on the front and they keep me somewhat flexed) and when I try to stand up straighter, it pulls on my left side (back), like it's knotting there. It's hard to describe. I don't think I even went halfway around. Ats & I walked through produce (it's a super Target) and then looked in housewares for drinking glasses, since most of ours broke when we moved and then went to the register afterwards. That was the extent of my adventures at Target. I was trying not to run into people, with my cart or just bump into them... Most are very nice and let me have the right of way, but I did get several dirty looks when i couldn't quite figure out how to maneuver me and the cart to turn. So, when Frendell took the cart, I happily gave it to him :-)

When we arrived home, lo and behold, there was Carol, bearing some lovely fresh flowers and a homemade delicious banana cake with chocolate frosting.  All made from scratch.  It was so great to have Ats finally meet Carol, my sista from anotha motha here in Chicago. Carol just got done seeing some kids and she stopped by to visit and before she had to pick up Kevin from school. Carol, as always, makes me laugh and smile and her cake really touched that spot in my belly which was craving for something sweet :-)  Thanks Carol.  So if any of you want to try this delicious banana cake, hurry on over before I finish it all :-)

the weather here is very warm, no more snow left...  almost like it's  summer already. I hope it'll snow next week for when the kids get here.. both Christian and Kori have been telling me they want to make snow angels. Oh boy, today, it would have been in the mud.  I am excited to see them... but then, that would mean that Ats would be home then too... oh, why can't we just have cake and be all together in one happy place?

Have a great night everyone... I hope you all get some good sleep tonight.  I know I'm planning on it.. at least 2 - 4 hours :-)  see you tomorrow...

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week-end visits

So, the doctor did remove 2 of my drains. Yeay!  Dr. Salvino, plastics fellow, was trying very hard to be gentle and reassuring when he pulled them out. One came out easily, i didn't even realize it, the other, not so much. I was holding Ats hand with my left hand and trying to hold Frendell's hand with my right, but Mr. Reyes was busy trying not to faint, so he was playing with his cell phone so he didn't have to really see what was going on.  Dr. Salvino then asked him if he was alright and that to let him know if he felt faint, because we have seen people faint here before.  Frendell did a great job and did not faint, with all the drain removals and dressing changes, but he did look a little green there for a while. I've been encouraging him to blog about it... who knows, maybe one of these days he will :-)

After that, we went to lunch and then walked around at Costco. Finally got to go there to walk.. but by that time, i was so tired already. Got home and just rested the rest of the day and night. We got home to a beautiful flower surprise from cuzin' Karen Martinez. She sent a bouquet of sunshine :-) .. very pretty yellow flowers. We have been so blessed with all the flower arrangements we have received... from Ate Vien Cornell and her Mom; Dana and Matt (gerber daisy along with a very cute bear which I will wait until the kids get here to name); Elder Barnett and the Illinois Conference; Ann McLaughlin; Becki and Jason Wightman; Auntie Puring and Uncle Victor Cabanilla and Chicago Fil-am family.  The flowers are so beautiful to look at and they have brightened our home and brought smiles to our faces.

Our week-end has been busy with visits. Saturday, our band, OP2.0, along with our other young adults came by to say hello before they led worship @ West Central Church, where Oasis had its monthly meeting. It was great to see everyone and we had a great time visiting and even took some pictures. I think it was the first time they met Ats, except for Joyce, who met her several years ago.  Then Froy and Patricia came over and brought yummy dinner, but we won't say what it is :-) but it was delicious... now we will have lots of curious comments...
Froy has been so great about helping us fix the house and tonight was no exception. He ripped off the carpet from the stairs and put some new ones. It looks great, Froy. We got to visit with Patricia and we were so sad to hear that her brother was in the hospital due to pneumonia. We pray for him and hope that he will be able to go home soon as well. Unfortunately, it had been a long day and I fell asleep right after I took my meds.. didn't even know when they left :-(  sorry guys.... old lady getting sleepy early :-)

On Sunday, I tried to help Ats sort out some things in the laundry room. Sometimes it's difficult to pace myself. When I'm taking meds and not in so much pain, I forget and try to do more than I probably should.. and then afterwards I remember why the doctor told me to take it easy for awhile. No one's fault but my own. I rested for the rest of the afternoon and then Uncle Jesse and Auntie Beth Reyes came over to visit. It was great to see them again and talk about juicers and wellness centers and healing in general. They are very generous and fun to talk to and we enjoyed our visit with them. 

Frendell had a volleyball game in the p.m. Unfortunately his team lost :-(   Hopefully, they'll win next week. We had a busy week-end and lots of people sent home food for me (thanks Aunties who made all the different delicious foods).  So many of you have been so generous and so responsive to our needs. God has been so faithful and you have answered His call to your hearts. We thank you all for your generosity.... for your thoughts, for your love and concerns, for your prayers, for just thinking happy thoughts and well wishes for us, we thank you. It gives us courage and hope to face each day.

What does this week bring? More doctors visits.. and counting Ats days before she goes home to California :-(  unfortunately, Lauren got sick last Thursday while Ats was here... poor thing. I know she misses her Mom. we are looking forward to Frank, Candy and the kids coming in about a week's time.  I will try to post more pictures soon. Thanks for listening.. I hope you all had a great week-end. What's everyone been up to?